How to Split a Toaster
A Divorce Podcast about Saving Your Relationships
Seth Nelson is a Tampa-based family lawyer known for devising creative solutions to difficult problems. In How to Split a Toaster, Nelson and co-host Pete Wright take on the challenge of divorce with a central objective: saving your most important relationships with your family, your former spouse, and yourself.
From an early age, he has always wanted to help people. After law school he found that he could do the greatest good by helping people through one of the most difficult times of their lives. Being a divorcee himself, as well as a father, he understands what you’re going through.
“I have been through a divorce and have a young child. As difficult as the divorce process can be, especially when there are kids involved, things will get better.”
In his practice, Seth focuses on Florida divorce law, Florida family law, and Florida family law mediation. On the Toaster, however, he offers a platform for exploring the extraordinarily wide range of topics that impact you through your divorce, all with an eye on saving your most important relationships.
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Parenting in 4D: Navigating Divorce with Tim McCarthy
Tim McCarthy, educator & martial arts master, joins us to explore parenting across physical, mental, emotional & spiritual dimensions during divorce.
Erasing Alienation: Ginger Gentile's Mission to Reunite Families
Ginger Gentile, activist & filmmaker, shares her powerful journey to reverse parental alienation, a silent epidemic destroying families. We dive deep into this complex issue.
Greyson's Legacy with Ali Kessler: How a Mother’s Love Is Changing Laws
Ali Kessler joins us to discuss Greyson's Law, passed after her son's tragic murder-suicide, to better protect at-risk kids in custody cases.
Prenups: The Key to an Amicable Divorce? with Charles Jamieson
Attorney Charles Jamison shares insights on creating strong prenups that can keep divorce amicable and costs down. We discuss key components of a well-drafted agreement and how it can protect both parties.
More Listener Questions!
We tackle your toughest divorce questions, from coaching pitfalls to co-owned businesses. Tune in for expert insights to help you navigate the complexities of divorce.
Deposition Prep
We prep you for the pressure of a deposition to give you invaluable insights and strategies in this challenging process. Learn the rules, avoid traps, and let your lawyer lead.
Becoming a Stronger Parent During Divorce with Heather Quick
Heather Brooke Quick of Florida Women's Law Group shares strategies for becoming a better parent during and after divorce. Plus, we have another listener question!
The Case for Good Apologies with Susan McCarthy
Seth and Pete dive into the art of apologizing effectively with Susan McCarthy, especially during a divorce – and we’re not just talking about with your spouse or ex but your kids as well!
The P.E.A.C.E. Process
Divorce can be a complicated process, especially with children. The acronym PEACE can be used to remember the major points. We talk through each of the points on the show today. When filing for divorce, keep these in mind.
It’s Time for Listener Questions!
Seth and Pete take on listener questions about alimony, co-parenting, and step-up plans. Plus, someone wanted to know about the origins of the show so we take a walk down memory lane!
Divorce and Your Kids: Understanding the Impact and Helping Them Cope with Cathy Himlin
Cathy Himlin, reunification/conjoint family therapist, joins us to discuss the child-centered approach in divorce parenting. Plus, we have take on a listener question about social investigations!
When Your Financial Partner Leaves: Overcoming Money Fears Post-Divorce with Ben Hockema
Financial planner Ben Hockema joins us to discuss rebuilding your money mindset post-divorce and starting fresh with a new financial plan.
Résumé Revamp: Post-Divorce Job Hunting with Josef Stetter
Josef Stetter, "The Resume Whisperer," shares expert insights on crafting a compelling post-divorce résumé and acing the job interview. Plus, we have another listener question!
Jennifer Lee • Rewriting Your Money Story: From Limiting Beliefs to Financial Freedom
Jennifer Lee of Modern Wealth joins us to discuss rewriting your money story during divorce. We provide insights on overcoming financial fears, regaining control, and practical steps to thrive. Plus, we have another listener question!
Jill Moellering • Fuel Your Body, Not Your Stress: Healthy Eating Through Divorce
Jill Moellering, nutritional therapist, joins us to discuss coping with emotional eating and rebuilding a healthy relationship with food during divorce. Plus, we have another listener question!
Beverly Price • From Victim to Survivor: Reclaiming Your Power in Divorce
Empower your divorce journey with Beverly Price, founder of Her Empowered Divorce. We discuss overcoming domestic abuse, effective communication, documenting coercive control & more. Plus, a listener question!
Rebroadcast • Keeping Kids as the Focus: Successful Co-Parenting with Sarah Armstrong
In this rebroadcast from season 6, Sarah Armstrong, author of “The Mom’s Guide to a Good Divorce,” joins Seth and Pete to talk about doing what’s best for the kids when you’re going through a divorce. From scheduling to logistics to counseling to first right of refusal, it’s a conversation full of information to help you out.
Rebroadcast • Healing Trauma, Rebuilding Life with Dee Wallace
Dee Wallace is an actor and a healer and she’s spent the last 20 years as an advocate and teacher in the art of self-creation. Today, we talk about healing yourself and your kids after living through the trauma of divorce.
Demystifying Divorce Appeals: An Insider’s Guide from Judge Matt Lucas
Closing out the season, Judge Matt Lucas sheds light on the appeals process in divorce cases. The appellate judge gives rare insider perspective on grounds for appeals, key issues, and how the process works. We demystify this complex topic.
Reinventing Life After Divorce with Dawn Fleming
Midlife reinvention expert Dawn Fleming joins us to discuss rebuilding your life with confidence after divorce—trying new things, reconnecting with passions, and embracing change. Plus, we have another listener question!