How to Split a Toaster
A Divorce Podcast about Saving Your Relationships
Seth Nelson is a Tampa-based family lawyer known for devising creative solutions to difficult problems. In How to Split a Toaster, Nelson and co-host Pete Wright take on the challenge of divorce with a central objective: saving your most important relationships with your family, your former spouse, and yourself.
From an early age, he has always wanted to help people. After law school he found that he could do the greatest good by helping people through one of the most difficult times of their lives. Being a divorcee himself, as well as a father, he understands what you’re going through.
“I have been through a divorce and have a young child. As difficult as the divorce process can be, especially when there are kids involved, things will get better.”
In his practice, Seth focuses on Florida divorce law, Florida family law, and Florida family law mediation. On the Toaster, however, he offers a platform for exploring the extraordinarily wide range of topics that impact you through your divorce, all with an eye on saving your most important relationships.
Season 9
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Rebroadcast • Divorcing a Narcissist with Guest Victoria McCooey
In this rebroadcast from season 8, Narcissist Divorce Coach Victoria McCooey joins Seth and Pete to talk about the challenges that come when trying to get out of a marriage to a narcissist. It’s not easy! We walk through Victoria’s three stages in communicating with your narcissist soon-to-be ex that can help you more easily navigate this difficult situation through each of its phases.
Rebroadcast • Navigating Custody Battles with Reneé Rodriguez
In this Season 6 rebroadcast, Reneé Rodriguez, custody coach and founder of Best Foot Forward, joins Seth and Pete to talk about the challenges in custody battles, specifically how to navigate contentious custody situations during your divorce.
Rebroadcast • Exploring Yourself through Sex After Divorce with Sexologist Dr. Joe Kort
In this rebroadcast from season four: Dr. Joe Kort is a psychotherapist and founder of The Center for Relationship and Sexual Health and a board-certified clinical sexologist. He’s in the Toaster to help us navigate the uncertain waters of your post-divorce sex life.
Emotional Capital: The Key to Thriving During and After Divorce with Alan Feigenbaum
In this season finale episode, Seth and Pete explore the concept of emotional capital in divorce with experienced matrimonial and family law attorney Al Feigenbaum. They dive into how preserving emotional well-being during and after a divorce is crucial for effective co-parenting and moving forward in life.
Divorce Decoded: Your Questions, Our Answers
We tackle dating during divorce, saving marriages, unresponsive lawyers, and asset division complexities in this listener question episode! Plus, potential changes to the legalities of no-fault divorces? Tune in!
Untangling Emotions: Prioritizing Children's Well-Being After Divorce with Wendi L. Dumbroff
Counselor and therapist Wendi L. Dumbroff shares strategies for navigating post-divorce relationships, maintaining civility, & prioritizing children's well-being. Plus, listener questions!
Charting a Course Through Military Divorce with Kristin Scully
Kristin Scully, family law attorney with over a decade of experience, joins us to navigate the complexities of military divorce. We discuss pension division, parenting plans, and jurisdictional challenges unique to military families.
Navigating Complexity: High Net Worth Divorce Insights from Patrick Kilbane
Patrick Kilbane, wealth advisor & former family law attorney, joins us to navigate the complexities of high net worth divorce and smart financial decisions.
Breaking Patterns, Building Bonds: Dr. Etel Leit on Mastering Post-Divorce Communication
Dr. Etel Leit, human communication researcher and prominent psychologist, shares essential advice for effectively communicating with new partners after divorce. Plus, we tackle another listener question!
Parenting in 4D: Navigating Divorce with Tim McCarthy
Tim McCarthy, educator & martial arts master, joins us to explore parenting across physical, mental, emotional & spiritual dimensions during divorce.
Erasing Alienation: Ginger Gentile's Mission to Reunite Families
Ginger Gentile, activist & filmmaker, shares her powerful journey to reverse parental alienation, a silent epidemic destroying families. We dive deep into this complex issue.
Prenups: The Key to an Amicable Divorce? with Charles Jamieson
Attorney Charles Jamison shares insights on creating strong prenups that can keep divorce amicable and costs down. We discuss key components of a well-drafted agreement and how it can protect both parties.
More Listener Questions!
We tackle your toughest divorce questions, from coaching pitfalls to co-owned businesses. Tune in for expert insights to help you navigate the complexities of divorce.
Deposition Prep
We prep you for the pressure of a deposition to give you invaluable insights and strategies in this challenging process. Learn the rules, avoid traps, and let your lawyer lead.
Becoming a Stronger Parent During Divorce with Heather Quick
Heather Brooke Quick of Florida Women's Law Group shares strategies for becoming a better parent during and after divorce. Plus, we have another listener question!
The Case for Good Apologies with Susan McCarthy
Seth and Pete dive into the art of apologizing effectively with Susan McCarthy, especially during a divorce – and we’re not just talking about with your spouse or ex but your kids as well!
The P.E.A.C.E. Process
Divorce can be a complicated process, especially with children. The acronym PEACE can be used to remember the major points. We talk through each of the points on the show today. When filing for divorce, keep these in mind.
It’s Time for Listener Questions!
Seth and Pete take on listener questions about alimony, co-parenting, and step-up plans. Plus, someone wanted to know about the origins of the show so we take a walk down memory lane!
Divorce and Your Kids: Understanding the Impact and Helping Them Cope with Cathy Himlin
Cathy Himlin, reunification/conjoint family therapist, joins us to discuss the child-centered approach in divorce parenting. Plus, we have take on a listener question about social investigations!
When Your Financial Partner Leaves: Overcoming Money Fears Post-Divorce with Ben Hockema
Financial planner Ben Hockema joins us to discuss rebuilding your money mindset post-divorce and starting fresh with a new financial plan.