
How to Split a Toaster
A Divorce Podcast about Saving Your Relationships

Seth Nelson is a Tampa-based family lawyer known for devising creative solutions to difficult problems. In How to Split a Toaster, Nelson and co-host Pete Wright take on the challenge of divorce with a central objective: saving your most important relationships with your family, your former spouse, and yourself.
From an early age, he has always wanted to help people. After law school he found that he could do the greatest good by helping people through one of the most difficult times of their lives. Being a divorcee himself, as well as a father, he understands what you’re going through.
“I have been through a divorce and have a young child. As difficult as the divorce process can be, especially when there are kids involved, things will get better.”
In his practice, Seth focuses on Florida divorce law, Florida family law, and Florida family law mediation. On the Toaster, however, he offers a platform for exploring the extraordinarily wide range of topics that impact you through your divorce, all with an eye on saving your most important relationships.
Season 9
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You Asked, We Answer: Listener Questions
We dive into your most pressing divorce questions, covering finances, custody, dating, and more – all to navigate the complexities of divorce and prioritize your well-being.
Pleadings: Setting the Stage for Divorce • Your Divorce Case
In Part 3 of our "Your Divorce Case" series we explore the crucial role of pleadings in divorce, shedding light on how these documents lay the foundation for the entire process and impact the outcome.
Your Actions Matter • Your Divorce Case
Part two of Your Divorce Case! This week, we discuss how to navigate the do's and don'ts of your actions during a divorce, from maintaining the status quo to communicating effectively.
The Initial Consultation • Your Divorce Case
Establishing the attorney-client relationship in a divorce: what to expect during your first call, how to prepare, and why having the right lawyer on both sides matters.
Rebroadcast • Divorcing a Narcissist with Guest Victoria McCooey
In this rebroadcast from season 8, Narcissist Divorce Coach Victoria McCooey joins Seth and Pete to talk about the challenges that come when trying to get out of a marriage to a narcissist. It’s not easy! We walk through Victoria’s three stages in communicating with your narcissist soon-to-be ex that can help you more easily navigate this difficult situation through each of its phases.
Rebroadcast • Navigating Custody Battles with Reneé Rodriguez
In this Season 6 rebroadcast, Reneé Rodriguez, custody coach and founder of Best Foot Forward, joins Seth and Pete to talk about the challenges in custody battles, specifically how to navigate contentious custody situations during your divorce.
Rebroadcast • Exploring Yourself through Sex After Divorce with Sexologist Dr. Joe Kort
In this rebroadcast from season four: Dr. Joe Kort is a psychotherapist and founder of The Center for Relationship and Sexual Health and a board-certified clinical sexologist. He’s in the Toaster to help us navigate the uncertain waters of your post-divorce sex life.
Rebroadcast • Moving On and the Value of Your Divorce Community with Michelle Dempsey-Multack
In this rebroadcast episode from season 3, Michelle Dempsey-Multack joins us from the Moms Moving On Podcast. She has turned her own divorce into a thriving practice, writing, podcasting, and coaching others. We talk about the importance of finding your own community for support and guidance through the divorce process!
Emotional Capital: The Key to Thriving During and After Divorce with Alan Feigenbaum
In this season finale episode, Seth and Pete explore the concept of emotional capital in divorce with experienced matrimonial and family law attorney Al Feigenbaum. They dive into how preserving emotional well-being during and after a divorce is crucial for effective co-parenting and moving forward in life.
Divorce Decoded: Your Questions, Our Answers
We tackle dating during divorce, saving marriages, unresponsive lawyers, and asset division complexities in this listener question episode! Plus, potential changes to the legalities of no-fault divorces? Tune in!
Untangling Emotions: Prioritizing Children's Well-Being After Divorce with Wendi L. Dumbroff
Counselor and therapist Wendi L. Dumbroff shares strategies for navigating post-divorce relationships, maintaining civility, & prioritizing children's well-being. Plus, listener questions!
Charting a Course Through Military Divorce with Kristin Scully
Kristin Scully, family law attorney with over a decade of experience, joins us to navigate the complexities of military divorce. We discuss pension division, parenting plans, and jurisdictional challenges unique to military families.
Navigating Complexity: High Net Worth Divorce Insights from Patrick Kilbane
Patrick Kilbane, wealth advisor & former family law attorney, joins us to navigate the complexities of high net worth divorce and smart financial decisions.
Breaking Patterns, Building Bonds: Dr. Etel Leit on Mastering Post-Divorce Communication
Dr. Etel Leit, human communication researcher and prominent psychologist, shares essential advice for effectively communicating with new partners after divorce. Plus, we tackle another listener question!
Parenting in 4D: Navigating Divorce with Tim McCarthy
Tim McCarthy, educator & martial arts master, joins us to explore parenting across physical, mental, emotional & spiritual dimensions during divorce.
Erasing Alienation: Ginger Gentile's Mission to Reunite Families
Ginger Gentile, activist & filmmaker, shares her powerful journey to reverse parental alienation, a silent epidemic destroying families. We dive deep into this complex issue.
Greyson's Legacy with Ali Kessler: How a Mother’s Love Is Changing Laws
Ali Kessler joins us to discuss Greyson's Law, passed after her son's tragic murder-suicide, to better protect at-risk kids in custody cases.
Prenups: The Key to an Amicable Divorce? with Charles Jamieson
Attorney Charles Jamison shares insights on creating strong prenups that can keep divorce amicable and costs down. We discuss key components of a well-drafted agreement and how it can protect both parties.
More Listener Questions!
We tackle your toughest divorce questions, from coaching pitfalls to co-owned businesses. Tune in for expert insights to help you navigate the complexities of divorce.
Deposition Prep
We prep you for the pressure of a deposition to give you invaluable insights and strategies in this challenging process. Learn the rules, avoid traps, and let your lawyer lead.