How to Split a Toaster

A Divorce Podcast about Saving Your Relationships

Seth Nelson is a Tampa-based family lawyer known for devising creative solutions to difficult problems. In How to Split a Toaster, Nelson and co-host Pete Wright take on the challenge of divorce with a central objective: saving your most important relationships with your family, your former spouse, and yourself.

From an early age, he has always wanted to help people. After law school he found that he could do the greatest good by helping people through one of the most difficult times of their lives.  Being a divorcee himself, as well as a father, he understands what you’re going through.

“I have been through a divorce and have a young child. As difficult as the divorce process can be, especially when there are kids involved, things will get better.”

In his practice, Seth focuses on Florida divorce law, Florida family law, and Florida family law mediation. On the Toaster, however, he offers a platform for exploring the extraordinarily wide range of topics that impact you through your divorce, all with an eye on saving your most important relationships.

Season 9

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Laura Friedman Williams on Sex and Reinvention After Divorce

Laura Friedman Williams spent years in the publishing business, but it was only when her marriage broke up that she found the inspiration to write a book of her own: “Available: A Memoir of Sex & Dating After a Marriage Ends”. Laura joins us this week in the Toaster.

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Looking In: Divorce as a Tool for Self-Reflection

This week on the show, Seth Nelson leads us through a journey of self-reflection based on his years as a divorce attorney. When are his clients at their greatest stress? And how can a dose of reflection help streamline your divorce? Listen in this week to learn!

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The Difficult Divorce

The healthy post-divorce is a perennial favorite around these parts. But what happens when the divorce process is not so peaceful? We’re taking on the antagonistic divorce on the Toaster this week.

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A Divorce Lawyer’s Guide to Dating Apps

Heart? Swipe? Like? When it's time to get back into the sea after your divorce, how do you know where to find the right fish? This week on the show, divorce lawyer Seth Nelson shares his experience and insight into getting yourself back out there.

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Mediation for a Reduced Conflict Divorce with Tami Sbar

After experiencing her own divorce, Tami Sbar became interested in the practice of family law, and in particular, the value of mediation as a priceless benefit for divorcing couples and their families. Today, she dedicates her time and expertise to divorcing couples full time. This week on the show, she shares some of the intricacies involved with mediation.

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Our Happy Divorce: Building a Strong Post-Divorce Family with Ben Helfond and Nikki DeBartolo

Our guests today have worked hard to craft a loving and tight-knit family. Their effort to create that family has only intensified since their divorce in 2007. In an effort to help others see what’s possible, Ben Heldfond and Nikki DeBartolo created “Our Happy Divorce,” a book, channel, and community dedicated to building a healthy, happy, post-divorce modern family.

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Navigating Gray Divorce in the Family with authors Carol Hughes & Bruce Fredenburg

According to our guests today, late-in-life divorcées represent an unserved population. The complexities that come with navigating the divorce process, from adapting to a legal and financial system to communicating with the myriad relationships in and outside the family. How will you split a lifetime of assets? And most important to authors Carol Hughes and Bruce Fredenburg, how will you help your adult children and their children adapt to this new normal?

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Life as a Divorcée

We've talked to a string of guests, all specialists in some aspect of the divorce process supporting the legal process itself. This week, Jamie Ainsworth sits down in the Toaster to talk about her experience getting divorced to tell us what we missed.

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The Momentous Matter of Material: Dividing Personal Property

You have split your schedule. You’ve untangled custody. You feel like you’re on top of the thousand tiny decisions that face you during your divorce process. And still, you stare down the bear: how do you split your stuff? This week on the show, strategies for approaching your personal property.

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How Not to Be an A-Hole In Your Marriage with Brian Ronalds

Author Brian Ronalds joins us to talk about his series of books designed to guide you through your marriage assuming that you don’t actually want it to end: "How Not to be an A-Hole Husband and Lose Your Wife," and (among others) it’s partner, "How Not to be an A-hole Wife and Lose your Husband."

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The Pieces of Your Divorce Puzzle

This week on the show, we’re talking all about the puzzle that is your divorce. Start with the edges, find the corners, and move forward one piece at a time.

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